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Parenthood is a journey that often involves learning opportunities, growth, and challenges along the way. For Deja, that journey has come with obstacles, but also with hope, support, and new perspectives that are shaping her as a mother. 
 
When she enrolled in The Art of Positive Parenting (TAPP) at Action for Children, Deja had taken parenting classes before, but none had truly prepared her for the real-life challenges of parenting. This class, Deja shared, wasn’t just about reading strategies in a book—it was about learning from real experiences and gaining the tools to build stronger, healthier relationships with her children. 
 
One of the most powerful lessons Deja learned was that the way we describe our children shapes how we see them and how they see themselves. Instead of saying a child is “nosy,” she’s learned to recognize their curiosity. Instead of seeing a child as “bad,” she now understands that they are figuring out their world through trial and error.  
 
“How we talk about our kids really matters,” she said. “I’ve learned that instead of saying my child is quiet, to say that she’s attentive. It’s helped me see my kids differently and not put labels on them.” This simple mindset shift has transformed the way she approaches parenting, allowing her to set more realistic expectations and nurture her children’s individuality. For Deja, the biggest transformation has been in her perspective. In addition to the techniques she learned, Deja also gained confidence from taking Action for Children’s TAPP class.  
 
“I really appreciated how this class gave me a better idea of how to interact with my children and build a bond with them,” she said. “There are a lot of skills that I’ve been inspired to use already, and I can’t wait to implement more. I am really grateful to have been able to have been a part of this class.” Action for Children became a source of encouragement, guidance, and reassurance, reminding her that parenting is a journey, and every step forward matters.  
 
“It has been my experience over the past 8 years that many parents come into these classes feeling that they are parenting alone, and when they complete the classes, they feel supported. They have a group of peers that are going through similar situations, and they learn that it is never too late to do something different, to learn more and to try something new,” Parent Education Coordinator, Jenn DeStefano said. 
 
Deja’s journey is still unfolding, but with newfound confidence, parenting tools, and a steady source of support, she is embracing the path ahead—one step at a time. 

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Author: Christiana Sallard, Marketing & Communications Manager at Action for Children
Action for Children would also like to thank Deja for sharing her story.

Action for Children’s TAPP offerings in Licking County are funded by the United Way of Licking County and Action for Children’s generous donors. Learn More about TAPP.

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