3 – 5 Years

This is a magical time as your little person grows and develops. Your three-year-old is full of wonder, observing and imitating. Your four-year-old is energetic and imaginative.  Learns new words quickly and uses them to tell jokes and wild stories. Your five-year-old likes to plan and be part of decision-making.

Physical Development:
  • Uses the toilet with some help, younger ages may still be potty training
  • Dresses without much help.  Starts to use table utensils skillfully.
  • Walks a straight line and can hop on one foot, learns to skip
  • Starts to pedal and steer a tricycle with skill
  • Learns to catch and throw a bounced ball
Intellectual Development:

  • Younger children can draw circle and square. Older children may draw pictures that represent animals, objects and people.
  • Matches object to picture.  Places toys, objects in line from smallest to largest.
  • Identifies common colors and begins to count
  • Begins to recognize words and letters, address/phone number if taught
  • Knows stories have a beginning, middle and end.  Begins to understand that stories are read from left to right, top to bottom
Social and Emotional Development:

  • May show preference for one parent (usually parent of opposite sex)
  • Enjoys playing house, dress up, etc. Has difficulty separating fantasy / pretend play from reality.
  • Understands and obeys simple rules (sometimes)
  • Takes turns and shares (most of the time), but can be bossy
  • By five, likes to feel grown up and may boast about self to younger children
  • May exclude other children in play, particularly best friend
How You Can Help Your Child Grow:

  • Involve him in observing and investigating natural events and objects, sorting, classifying, searching for patterns, noting differences and similarities, and in drawing and discussing what he sees.
  • Provide fine motor activities, such as using puzzles, sewing, woodworking, playing with objects that can be taken apart and put back together, dolls and their accessories.
  • Make a playhouse of large cardboard packing boxes.  Stock with crayons, paper, books.  Put together a box of dress up clothes for make believe play
  • Make story time interactive, ask your child questions as you read the story.

Child Development
0 to 9 months
10 to 18 months
19 to 35 months
3 to 5 years
5 to 13 years
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